Flower Girl 101: Accurate Guides

by Australian Flowers

Flower Girls are so cute walking down the aisle before the bride! But have you ever wondered about the meaning and origin of flower girls? We’ve got all the information for you right here.

What is a Flower Girl?

It is a young female who scatters flower petals in front of the bride during a wedding procession. She may also carry a floral bouquet or wear a flower crown, often dressed in white or ivory to match the bride’s gown.

The History of Flower Girls

Flower Girl

They have been around for centuries, and their origins can be traced back to ancient Rome. In those days, flower girls were young girls who carried bouquets in religious ceremonies.

The tradition of having flower girls at weddings likely started in England during the Middle Ages. At that time, flower girls were often young children from low-income families who were allowed to earn a bit of money by scattering flower petals along the bride’s path.

Flower Girl Alternatives

Not everyone wants them at their wedding. Maybe you’re having an intimate ceremony with only close family and friends, or you don’t like the idea of a little girl walking down the aisle ahead of you.

Whatever your reasons, there are plenty of alternatives to having them at your wedding. Here are a few of our favourites:

  • Have them walk down the aisle together
  • Have them toss petals outside before the ceremony starts
  • Give them each a flower to carry instead of a full bouquet
  • Let them wear flower crowns or carry flower balls
  • Have them hold signs with your wedding hashtag
  • Ask them to be “junior bridesmaids” or “flower girl attendants.”
  • Let them walk with your parents or other significant family members
  • Have them sit in the front row with their families
  • Give them a unique role in the ceremony, like lighting

Flowers that are used to carry together with the flower girl

It is usually a flower that has a large flower head. Here are some examples you can consider when choosing a flower to match the flower girl.


Roses are one of the most popular flowers for the flower girl. They come in many colours and have a classic, romantic look that is perfect for weddings.


Gerbera daisies are another popular choice for flower girls. They are large and colourful and have a fun, playful look that is perfect for summer weddings.


Lilies are beautiful, elegant flower that is perfect for formal weddings. They come in many colours, but white lilies are the most popular choice for flower girls.


Carnations are a classic flower that is often used in wedding bouquets. This flower gives off a warm and friendly feeling, making it an excellent choice for flower girls.


Chrysanthemums are beautiful flowers that come in many colours. They are perfect for fall and winter weddings.

As you can see, many different types of flowers can be used for flower girls. The most important thing is to choose a flower that you think will look good with the dress and the theme of your wedding.

Frequently Asked Questions 

Who Should be the Flower Girl?

Traditionally, it is a young female member of the bride’s or groom’s family, typically between the ages of four and seven. However, anyone special to the couple can be chosen to take on this vital role.
Once you’ve decided who will fill the position, it’s time to start thinking about what they’ll need to do and what they’ll need to wear.

How Old Should they be?

The average age is between four and eight years old, although some couples choose to have those who are younger or older. It depends on the child’s maturity level and how well they will handle the responsibilities of being a flower girl.

Can I Have More Than One?

Many couples choose to have more than one flower girl at their wedding. This can be a great way to involve younger family members in the big day. It can also help to spread the workload if you have a lot of flower arrangements to carry!

What Should They Wear?

If you’re wondering what they should wear, the answer is pretty simple: whatever you want them to! Of course, there are a few things to keep in mind. They are typically young girls, so their outfits should be age-appropriate.
You also want to make sure their outfits coordinate with the overall look and feel of your wedding. Other than that, the sky’s the limit!

Who Should Pay for the Dress?

There is no set rule for who should pay for the dress. Typically, it is either the bride or groom’s parents who cover the cost. However, some couples choose to split the charge between both sets of parents or even pay for it themselves. Ultimately, it is up to the team to decide who will foot the bill.

What Are They Responsible for exactly?

They have the honour of leading the bride down the aisle at her wedding. Their traditional role is scattering flower petals along the path before the bride walks down. They may also carry a small bouquet or pomander ball of flowers.

Do They Have to Throw Flowers?

They traditionally carry a bouquet down the aisle and scatter flower petals in front of the bride as she walks. While flower petals are still a popular choice, many of them now carry baskets or pomanders filled with flower petals instead. Some even hold signs or banners!

Should I Get Them a Thank-you Gift?

Giving gifts to the flower girl and ring bearer is not required, but it’s a nice gesture. You can give them a small token of your appreciation, such as a piece of jewellery or a gift card. If you decide to give gifts, do so before the wedding day so that they can be used as part of the outfits.

What does a flower girl symbolize?

The flower girl is typically a young girl who walks before the bride and scatters flower petals on the ground. The symbolism behind having a flower girl at a wedding is twofold. Firstly, the flower girl represents purity and innocence. Secondly, she is thought to bring good luck to the bride and groom. Some believe that having a flower girl at your wedding will ensure that your marriage will be happy and prosperous.

Why do flower girls wear white?

Traditionally, flower girls have worn white because it is the colour of purity and innocence. It is also considered lucky for the bride and her wedding day.

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